the-judges-in-your-bed

The Judges in Your Bedroom

/ by / in intimacy, marriage, self, sex
For a population famous for being committed monogamists, Christian mommies sure have a lot of people in their bedrooms with them.I’m not talking about other partners here, but the looming judgments of important figures like mom, dad, grandma or pastor and what they would have to say about the activities done or not done in thy boudoir.Whether they have ever discussed it or not, our elders carried and conveyed their view of sex throughout all our developmental years. I call the unexamined judgments in our lives “grandma’s wallpaper.” You know how something can just “be there” for 20 years, totally